the buddhist say..

if you meet somebody and
your heart pounds,
your hands shake,
your knees go weak,
that's not the one.

When you meet your "soul mate",
you'll feel calm,
no anxiety,
no agitation.

stolen from tumblr

as im getting older
ive realised that my attraction to people
has very little to do with the way they look

i guess

something many of us do but cant admit is
we all make bad decisions
for temporary happiness